Sunday, July 25, 2010

"Farewell, My Friend"


          You were there when I'm weary and need someone to talk to. You were there during my lowest point and always reminds me that life is not all about accolades and distinctions; that there is more to life than petty anxieties and useless apprehensions about the future. You've taught me how to be patient, to love unconditionally, to look past the imperfections and see the inner beauty of someone you love, and above all, you've made me realize that genuine happiness is beyond fancy cars, designer clothes, or any material things in this world; that happiness and love are inseparable. You are an angel in disguise, sent by God to bring us back to reality that simple things , indeed, make people happy beyond compare. For some people you are just a dumb four-legged creature but for me, you are like my little brother who knows how to feel loved and give love to those people who really care for you. During those 10 precious months that we were together, I have felt that being single is totally fine as long as I'm with compassionate companions like you.
        We have seen you grow, stayed by your side when you are weak and need some care, provided you with food, shelter, and genuine love yet, all of these seem to be not enough to show you how much our family loves you. I thought that our friendship story will last longer but life is so short and unpredictable, we never really know what God has in store for us. You left us last night, bewildered and devastated for a loss as intense as a death of a beloved blood relative. You died in my arms while we're on our way to the vet but during those two days that you battled with death, I know that you wanted to live longer because you love us and you are a natural-born fighter. It's causing us so much pain, far from being describable because you're more than a pet to us....you are the light of our lives. Although I'm a bit frustrated that God took you earlier than I expected, I'm thanking Him because He used you to teach us lessons, to strengthen ourselves, to touch our inner souls, and to emphasize that every aspects of life is not worth taking for granted. This blog entry is dedicated especially for you to show you how much I value a great soul like you.
          Once again, though words are not enough to express what my bleeding heart feels, I want to say I LOVE YOU my angel, my friend, my little brother, my loving dog. I hope you're in His safe arms right now, doing what a loving dog is supposed to do. I LOVE YOU but we know life is short and yours is borrowed also like the rest of us. I LOVE YOU but God has a Divine Purpose for your death. I LOVE YOU but you need to leave, at least just for now because somewhere in the future, I know we'll meet again. I LOVE YOU but death is an inevitable existence. Farewell, MOJACKO! Farewell, my friend! I will miss you! 'Til we meet again!

Friday, July 2, 2010

Lessons from a Jejemon

“mUzta nA pOw u. jEjEm0n aQ, kAy0w?”

We witnessed history unfolds as P-Noy (President Noynoy Aquino ) finally responded to the nation's call for change during his inaugural address. But none of the yellow confettis and sweet promises will eradicate the controversial existence and ubiquitous influence of the so-called Jejemonism, a rising subculture with its own mind-twisting language which almost rob P-Noy's popularity through the mass media. As defined by Urban Dictionary, Jejemons are those who have managed to subvert the English/Tagalog language to the point of incomprehensibility and online lynch squads; take the italicized statement above as an example. And like other non-conformists, jejemons' rise to fame has been receiving criticisms from language purists called jejebusters (jejemon haters) almost consistently. Most of us hate them because we view a jejemon as a potential threat to our already dilapidated educational system. Moreover, social networking sites like Facebook has become a breeding ground as well for groups who bluntly condemns jejemons like “!f yUh t!yP3 Lyk3 DihS Don’t talk to me!” ( a Facebook group with a staggering 824,267 fans). On the other hand, if we really want to understand both sides of the story, this jejemon phenomenon really deserves a spotlight for an impartial analysis. Criticisms are no good to reveal what's behind the weird combinations of numbers and letters unique of the jejemons. On my own vantage point, jejemonism is an issue worthy of contemplation because believe it or not, jejemons bring with them a number of valuable lessons and eye-opening realities, not just nuisances to our society.

Although the jejemon vocabulary is a bit off, I have observed that they demonstrate both respect and creativity. As you can notice, unlike any other distorted languages (e.g. Gay lingo), the word "po", as in "mUzta Na pOw?"(kamusta na po?) or "Okie lNg f0e"(ok lang po) , was retained in their vocabulary, a sign of respect that is a trademark of the Filipino and jejemon culture as well. In addition to that, building a diverse vocabulary by including numerical characters and some rarely used alphabets (q,z,x) is a strong indication of their creativity. And by saying that, it also strengthens the fact that jejemons are not silly people promoting pure stupidity. Apparently, they should know first the right spelling of words before they can change it to their own language, which takes creativity and good level of education.

Jejemons are also living examples of people who are living within the bounds of democracy. Freedom of expression is what they uphold, showing people that they can be whatever they want as long as it doesn't hurt the majority of the population. It's better to do that than use democracy to destroy democracy itself like what the rebels of the South do. And with freedom comes the power to change, which is particularly appropriate to language, a medium for subgroups like jejemons to express themselves and is always subject to change to cater their distinct needs. Change is the only constant thing in this world; tolerance and respect for each other is the key towards peace, not resistance and harsh prejudice.

Jejemons also have their own ways of expressing themselves aside from their creative vocabulary. Their fashion statement, albeit awkward or inappropriate most of the time, consists of colorful clothes, eye-catching accessories, and the all-famous jejecap. Although it hurts the eyes of every fashion expert, we can never doubt the fact that these group of people knows how to stand out, be different, and bring an impact to our society. P-Noy, together with his iconic parents, also has brought the same intensity of influence to the Filipino people by bringing the symbolic "yellow ribbon" and "eyeglasses" to a higher level of importance, which eventually found their ways to T-shirts, mugs, accessories, car stickers and everything under the sun, much to the satisfaction of stores selling these merchandise. However, like the jejemons who manifest their principles both in words and actions, patriotism should go beyond wearing T-shirts imprinted with the Philippine map. We are all responsible to prove to the whole world that it's never too late to make a big change. Let’s move forward propelled by sheer nationalism and determination to achieve progress. And that big move should start now.

According to Dean Rolando Tolentino of the University of the Philippines College of Mass Communication says the rise of the jejemons is a symptom of the partitioning of society into sub-classes. For linguist Alex Maximo,the phenomenon is linked to hegemony: who has power, who doesn’t, and how the conflicts that arise from the concomitant societal stresses are expressed. These findings just indicate that the growing number of jejemons, which mostly came from lower socio-economic status, is a way for them to express their feelings, establish a unique identity, and demonstrate how the clash between them, the "jologs" and the "sosyal" (middle- to upper-class jejebusters) becomes a complete representation of how wide the gap is between the two social classes in the Philippines; a reality that the current president should take into consideration.

There are positive aspects of jejemonism that I admire but it doesn't necessarily mean that I'm a true-blue jejemon and that I promote their principles. I personally hate the way they clog the internet and texting world with seemingly nonsense messages but we always have to remember that what's really important is the message behind their distorted language and the hidden lessons that they can impart. This is who they are and robbing them of their freedom to express is tantamount to human rights violation. It would be better if the Department of Education will focus more on developing strategies on how to alleviate the ongoing deterioration of Philippine education due to inadequate facilities and teachers than waste their time eliminating the fast-growing jejemons who continuously evolve with time. We are all entitled to our own opinions but at the end of the day, respect for each other's differences will prevail. This is the real essence of freedom. aNowh? aY0wZ p0w bAh?